Thanks in advance

Formal Depends on context

What it really means

Thanking you before you have agreed — polite on the surface, but it quietly assumes you will say yes. Some people find it friendly, others find it a little pushy.

Chinese explanation
还没等你答应就先道谢——表面客气,暗中默认你会同意。有人觉得这样亲切,也有人觉得有点强人所难。

Example conversation

A: Could you cover my shift on Sunday? Thanks in advance! B: Er — I haven't said yes yet!
A:周日能帮我顶个班吗?先谢啦! B:呃——我还没答应呢!

What you could say back

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