"How are you?" as a greeting

Informal Polite

What it really means

When British people say "How are you?", "You alright?" or "How's it going?", it's usually a greeting, not a real question about your health. The expected answer is short and positive: "Good thanks, you?" Giving a long honest answer to a passing "how are you?" surprises people — save real news for real conversations.

Chinese explanation
英国人说"How are you?"、"You alright?"或"How's it going?"时,通常只是打招呼,不是真的询问你的近况。标准回答简短而积极:"Good thanks, you?"(挺好的,你呢?)对一句路过式的问候认真长篇作答会让对方吃惊——真正的近况留到正式聊天再说。

Example conversation

A: Morning! How are you? B: Good thanks, you? A: Yeah, not bad at all.
A:早上好!最近怎么样? B:挺好的,谢谢,你呢? A:嗯,还不错。

What you could say back

“Good thanks, you?”

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