Handshakes, hugs and cheek kisses

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What it really means

First meetings usually get a handshake (work) or just a smile and "Hi, nice to meet you" (casual). Hugs are for friends; one cheek kiss happens between some friends, mostly women or mixed pairs — but many Brits don't kiss at all. Physical greetings are lighter here than in much of Europe. When unsure, a smile and hello is never wrong.

Chinese explanation
初次见面通常握手(工作场合)或只是微笑说"Hi, nice to meet you"(日常场合)。拥抱留给朋友;有些朋友之间会贴一下单侧脸颊,多见于女性或异性朋友——但很多英国人根本不行贴面礼。这里的肢体问候比欧洲大陆多数地方都轻。拿不准时,微笑加问好永远不会错。

Context, tips & common mistakes

The British greeting repertoire, in ascending intimacy: the nod-and-'alright' (strangers you pass repeatedly, e.g. neighbours), the verbal-only 'hiya / you alright?' (most daily encounters — note no handshake), the handshake (first introductions, anything professional), the one-armed hug or full hug (established friends), and the single cheek kiss (friends, more common in the South and among women). Two kisses reads continental; nobody minds, but nobody expects it.

The famous awkward hover — two people simultaneously unsure whether this is a handshake, hug or kiss occasion — is universal and laughed about; the resolution is to commit early to one gesture or simply mirror. Note that Brits often greet without names ('alright mate!' from someone who has known you two years) — not forgetfulness or coldness, just the local register. Your name will be used when it matters.

Example conversation

A: Hi, I'm Wei — nice to meet you. (offers hand) B: Nice to meet you too, Wei. (shakes hands)
A:你好,我是小伟——很高兴认识你。(伸出手) B:我也很高兴认识你,小伟。(握手)

What you could say back

“Nice to meet you too.”

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