Sorry

SO-ree /ˈsɒri/
Neutral Polite

What it really means

British people say "sorry" constantly, and it is often not an apology at all. It can mean "excuse me", "I didn't hear you", "you're in my way", or just soften a sentence. Someone may say sorry even when YOU bump into THEM.

Chinese explanation
英国人把 sorry 挂在嘴边,很多时候根本不是道歉。它可以表示"借过""我没听清""你挡到我了",或只是让语气更柔和。就算是你撞到别人,对方也可能先说 sorry。

Context, tips & common mistakes

Surveys regularly find British people apologising many times a day, and most of those "sorries" carry no guilt at all. The uses worth learning: "Sorry?" with a rising tone means "I didn't hear you — please repeat" (much more natural than "what?", which can sound abrupt); "sorry" before a question softens the interruption; and the mutual "sorry" when two people bump is a social reflex, not an admission of fault. That last point matters practically — after a genuine accident or dispute (a car bump, a damaged parcel) an insurance-style admission is a different register entirely from the everyday social "sorry". The learner mistakes run both ways: some newcomers apologise too little and come across as brusque; others take every "sorry" they hear as sincere remorse and respond too seriously. Match the weight of the situation: a light "no worries" answers a light "sorry".

Example conversation

A: Sorry, is this seat taken? B: No, go ahead. A: Sorry, thanks. Sorry.
A:不好意思,这个座位有人吗? B:没有,请坐。 A:不好意思,谢谢。不好意思啊。

What you could say back

“No worries.”

Related phrases

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