I must dash

must DASH /dæʃ/
Informal Polite

What it really means

A polite way to leave: "I have to go now". Dash means run. It may be true, or just a kind way to end a long conversation. No offence is meant.

Chinese explanation
礼貌的告辞:我得赶紧走了。dash 是飞奔的意思。可能真有急事,也可能只是友善地结束长谈,并无恶意。

Context, tips & common mistakes

"Must dash" — with 'I'd better let you go', 'right, I'll let you get on', and the mighty 'anyway…' — belongs to the toolkit of polite escape: phrases that end conversations while pretending the ending is regrettable or even for the other person's benefit. 'I'll let you get on' is particularly elegant, framing your escape as courtesy to them.

Listen for 'anyway' with a slight change of tone: it is the universal pre-departure signal, and continuing a long story past someone's third 'anyway' is a genuine social error. Your own exits should use the same machinery — an abrupt 'I'm going now' sounds cold in a culture where departures are choreographed. Note that leaving a gathering involves announcing it well before actually leaving; the gap between 'right, we should head off' and the door closing is traditionally substantial.

Example conversation

A: Sorry, I must dash — my bus is in five minutes. B: Off you go! See you soon.
A:抱歉,我得赶紧走了——我的公交五分钟后就到。 B:快去吧!回头见。

What you could say back

“No worries — see you soon!”

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