Sorry, is anyone sitting here?

Neutral Polite

What it really means

The polite way to ask for a free seat on a train, in a pub or cafe. It really means "may I sit here?". The usual answer is "no, go ahead". Taking a clearly reserved seat without asking is frowned upon.

Chinese explanation
在火车、酒吧或咖啡馆询问空座的礼貌方式,真正的意思是"我能坐这儿吗"。通常的回答是"没人,请坐"。不问就坐明显有人占的位子会招人反感。

Example conversation

A: Sorry, is anyone sitting here? B: No, it's free — let me move my bag.
A:不好意思,这里有人坐吗? B:没有,是空的——我把包挪一下。

What you could say back

“No, it's free — go ahead.”

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