Thank you for having me

Neutral Polite

What it really means

A set polite phrase you say to a host as you leave their home, meaning "thank you for inviting me and looking after me". It's expected even after a casual visit. The host usually replies "thank you for coming" or "you're welcome any time".

Chinese explanation
离开主人家时说的一句固定客套话,意思是"谢谢你邀请我、招待我"。即便只是随意串门也会说。主人通常回"谢谢你来"或"随时欢迎再来"。

Example conversation

A: We're heading off now — thank you for having us. B: Thank you for coming! Get home safe.
A:我们要走了——谢谢你们的招待。 B:谢谢你们来!路上平安。

What you could say back

“Thank you for having me — it was lovely.”

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