Sending a thank-you card

Neutral Polite

What it really means

After a gift, a stay at someone's home, or a job interview or wedding, a short thank-you card or message is a warm British custom. It doesn't need to be long — a couple of sincere lines is plenty. Children are often taught to send them after birthdays and Christmas.

Chinese explanation
收到礼物、在别人家留宿、参加完求职面试或婚礼后,寄一张简短的感谢卡或发条感谢消息,是英国温暖的习俗。不必长——真诚的两三句就够了。小孩子常被教导在生日和圣诞后寄感谢卡。

Example conversation

A: They had us over for the whole weekend. B: A little thank-you card afterwards would be a lovely touch.
A:他们留我们住了整个周末。 B:事后寄张小小的感谢卡会是很贴心的举动。

What you could say back

“I'll send them a card this week.”

Related phrases

All Customs & Etiquette
Reviewed by the UK Decoded editorial team · Last checked 24 July 2026 · Report a mistake