Punctuality by occasion
What it really means
A rough guide: interviews, doctors, lectures, trains — arrive early. Coffee with a friend — on time to 5 minutes late. Dinner at someone's home — 5 to 15 minutes late. House party — 30 to 60 minutes after the start time; arriving on time to a party can catch the host in the shower. When invited, "7 for 7:30" means arrive at 7, dinner at 7:30.
Context, tips & common mistakes
British punctuality runs on a sliding scale that nobody writes down. On time or slightly early: anything work-related, restaurant bookings, theatre, trains (which leave to the second), and appointments of every kind. Five to fifteen minutes late: drinks at a pub, casual meetups — arriving dead on time is fine too. Ten to twenty minutes late: dinner at someone's home, where mild lateness is actually politer than punctuality.
The rule that shocks newcomers: never arrive early to someone's house. The host is in the shower, the kitchen is chaos, and your keenness is a small imposition — if you are early, walk around the block. House parties stretch furthest: 'from 8pm' means arriving at 8 is bold and 9 is normal. When genuinely late anywhere, a quick message transforms irritation into sympathy; silent lateness is the actual offence.
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