Offering to make tea for others

Informal Polite

What it really means

An unwritten rule of British homes and offices: when you get up to make yourself a tea or coffee, you offer to make one for everyone nearby — "Anyone want a brew?" Making one just for yourself in front of others is quietly noted. Learning everyone's tea order (milk? sugar?) wins real affection.

Chinese explanation
英国家庭和办公室的不成文规矩:起身给自己泡茶或咖啡时,要顺便问周围的人——"Anyone want a brew?"(有人要喝茶吗?)当着大家的面只给自己泡一杯,别人嘴上不说心里有数。记住每个人的口味(加奶?加糖?)能赢得真感情。

Example conversation

A: I'm putting the kettle on — anyone want a brew? B: Ooh, yes please. Milk, no sugar. A: Coming right up.
A:我去烧水——有人要喝茶吗? B:哦,要要要。加奶不加糖。 A:马上就来。

What you could say back

“Yes please — milk, no sugar.”

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