Dropping in unannounced

Informal Depends on context

What it really means

Knocking on a friend's door without arranging it first is unusual in modern Britain, and many people find it stressful — the home is private space and visits are planned. Even close friends usually text before coming round. Exceptions: returning something briefly, checking on an elderly neighbour, or a real emergency.

Chinese explanation
在如今的英国,不提前约好就敲朋友家的门很少见,很多人会觉得有压力——家是私人空间,拜访要事先安排。就算是好朋友,来之前一般也会发消息。例外:顺路还个东西、探望独居老邻居、或真正的紧急情况。

Example conversation

A: I was nearby so I thought I'd drop in — is that okay? B: Of course, come in! Though fair warning, the place is a mess. Text me next time and I'll have biscuits ready.
A:我刚好在附近,就想着过来看看——方便吗? B:当然,快进来!不过丑话在先,家里很乱。下次先发消息,我好准备点饼干。

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