It's not quite what I had in mind

Neutral Polite

What it really means

Usually means "this is very different from what I wanted" or simply "I don't like it". The word "quite" softens what is often real disappointment.

Chinese explanation
通常表示"这和我想要的差得很远",或者干脆就是"我不喜欢"。quite 一词软化了往往相当真实的失望。

Example conversation

A: Here's the birthday cake you ordered! B: Ah. It's… not quite what I had in mind. A: You did order a dinosaur cake? B: For my grandmother, yes.
A:这是您订的生日蛋糕! B:啊。这个……跟我想的不太一样。 A:您订的是恐龙蛋糕没错吧? B:没错,是给我奶奶的。

What you could say back

“What were you hoping for? We can change it.”

Related phrases

All Politeness Decoder
Reviewed by the UK Decoded editorial team · Last checked 24 July 2026 · Report a mistake