I beg your pardon?

Formal Depends on context

What it really means

Three meanings depending on tone: a polite "please repeat that", an old-fashioned apology, or — said sharply — real offence, meaning "how dare you say that". The sharp version is a warning to back down.

Chinese explanation
语气不同意思不同:客气的"请再说一遍"、老派的道歉,或语气尖锐时的真动怒——"你怎么敢这么说"。听到尖锐版就该赶紧收敛了。

Example conversation

A: Your generation just doesn't work hard. B: I beg your pardon? A: I mean — er — nothing.
A:你们这代人就是不肯吃苦。 B:您说什么? A:我是说——呃——没什么。

What you could say back

“Sorry — that came out wrong.”

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