Basic British table manners
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What it really means
The core rules: fork in the left hand, knife in the right (though nobody minds much these days); chew with your mouth closed; don't talk with a full mouth; keep your phone off the table at shared meals. Resting knife and fork together on the plate signals you've finished. It's about not disturbing others, not about perfection.
Chinese explanation
核心规则：左手叉右手刀（不过如今没人太计较）；闭着嘴咀嚼；嘴里有东西时别说话；同桌吃饭手机别放桌上。刀叉并排放在盘中表示吃完了。这一切的重点是不打扰别人，而不是追求完美。
Example conversation
A: Am I holding the knife and fork the right way round?
B: Fork left, knife right, traditionally. Honestly though, nobody's judging — just enjoy your food.
A：我的刀叉拿反了吗？
B：传统上是左叉右刀。不过说实话，没人盯着看——好好吃饭就行。
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